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3 Sex Mistakes Men Make
It doesn’t matter if you have sex with men, women or both; there are some universal flaws when it comes to sex with your partner. So if you want to improve your knowledge and possibly your romantic life, here are 3 big mistakes to AVOID.
Sex Mistake No.1: You Know Exactly What Your Partner Wants
Men often make assumptions about what their partner wants based upon what they’ve done with other sex partners. Big mistake. It’s natural to develop a sexual repertoire as you mature sexually, but you should never assume that what worked for the last person is going to work for this person.
Sex Mistake No. 2: You Completely Sexually Satisfy Your Mate
Some women can’t have an orgasm with less than 3,000 rpm. No human tongue or fingers can generate that kind of vibration. But men typically think something is wrong if a woman needs a vibrator. On the other hand, most men are visual and need different stimuli and sometimes the same partner is well…the same stimuli. Not all is lost, simply modify expectations and talk more about what is exciting for the both of you. Be open to new things in the bedroom.
Sex Mistake No. 3: Sex Feels the Same for Men and Women
There is a Venus and Mars thing happening in the way sex feels good for men and women. For example, the penetration during intercourse is nearly orgasmic when the penis goes into her body, most men cannot imagine that it doesn’t feel the same way for her. The inside of the vagina is less sensitive than the outer parts for most women. And deep thrusting may not feel so nice on the receiving end if the penis is too thick or long.
For those men with male partners, there is a bit of congruence often because the plumbing is the same but differences can surface when it comes to oral sex. Lots of men performing oral sex on other men find it less enjoyable to receive instructions while having their head guided during the act. It becomes more of a chore at that point.
As always when you hit a speed bump in the bedroom, don’t be embarrassed and hide your head in the sand. Seek professional assistance from a licensed professional. Here’s to fewer sex mistakes brothers.